If you can't tell, I'm a Libra - and who I am is pretty important to me. The 7 stars are for all of the kids - confusing if you don't remember that Tyler died shortly after he was born, and remember that Manny is not mine-by-birth, but mine.
Tylers star is the black one - shaded in at midnight on what would have been his 15th birthday. Profound for me...and a moment I'll never forget. The pain was secondary at that point.
Let me know what you think!